To a large considerable extent,there are certain attributes or factors that whether knowingly or unknowingly can rob ladies the chances of getting married.
SOME OF THE FACTORS INCLUDE.
1) FLAWS IN CHARACTER/ATTITUDE:Bad character affects some ladies so much in their relationship with a man.A man can manage a woman with a flaw in Character in relationship but will certainly not marry her.Character and attitude undoubtedly is the real beauty of a woman and not the physical features.
2) PRIDE; Pride has ridiculed and reduced many women to nothing.This pride ranges either from how beautiful they are,the type of family they came from,Education Background,Financial Status,Social Attainment,Good Job with large salary among others.
3) NEGATIVE IMPRESSION AND FEELINGS ABOUT MARRIAGE:Some ladies because of their growing up met some husband and wife who neither loved each other,s o they experienced some very radical lifestyle which created mixed feelings into the real objective of marriage.
4) ASSOCIATION WITH OTHER LADIES WHO ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE: Some ladies are not married today and others are still not interested in getting married because of the type of friends they have.Friends who don’t see marriage as anything.Friends who tell them only the negative side of marriage.
5) HIGH EXPECTATIONS: Some ladies expect any man they wish to marry to have everything in life.To them ,there mind is made up that they are not going to manage or struggle with any man.Hence the desire to get married to a well established figure can rob them the chances of getting married.
6) PARENTAL FACTOR: Some parents actually has spoilt their children with very wrong and negative impressions,that are not accepted morals and values.These often directs the ladies to certain concepts of life that can cheat their future.
7) SPIRITUAL FACTOR: Some ladies are highly demonized.
8) VOCATION SUCH AS REVD.SISTER.
9) CUSTOMS AND TRADITION.There are customs that do not permit the first daughter’s to marry.Some customs does not also allow the only child if she is a lady to marry,so that she can stay at home to have children who will answer the family name.
10) INDECISION: Some ladies don’t really know what they want.
11) BEING SELECTIVE
12) FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN.
Recommendations.The life of ladies between ages seventeen (17) and thirty(30),happens so fast that it comes with beauty, pressure to pursue targets,pressure to be like others,pressure to hold hand at something among others.Most ladies pay priority attention to some set goals and ignore the aspect of planning to build their relationship and marriage life.Please you don’t marry when you are due and ready,marriage is a preparation ahead of time.
When you give attention to relationship and marriage because you are now ready without preparing ahead before getting to that point,you literally become under pressure leading to several mistakes.
Mr.Ikechi Akpuh: Relationship Expert.President INTEGRITY RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE AMBASSADORS.
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